I've had success a couple of times, and this is what I have learned. Everything I say assumes that you are a guy, because, let's face it, girls have it easy on CL. Tips: 1. You have to be in/near a big city, I've only had success in the SF bay area and in Las Vegas. Whereas the craigslist for the town near my college is a fuckin ghost town. 2. You have to be really committed and spend a good bit of time posting and replying to ads. 3. It can be easier to find a couple that is looking for a guy than to find a girl who is looking for a guy, but either way it is possible. 4. You can't be afraid to send out pictures of yourself, including pictures of your face, and you have to be able to voice verify on the phone. 5. I've found that when posting ads, don't be all run of the mill: "I'm a hot guy looking for a hot girl for NSA!". Instead, make yours more exotic, say that you are looking for a specific fetish (but make it actually a fetish that you are interested in... otherwise you can end up with a freak who has a fetish that you don't). I've posted ads saying that I want to spank a naughty girl, or that I'm looking for a sexy pregnant chick who is missing out on some loving, etc (both of those types of ads got real replies from real girls). 6. This last tip should be obvious, but for all the fucktards out there ALWAYS USE CONDOMS no matter what the dirty bitch says. My Experiences: So I guess that I actually have met up with 5 different people through CL (3 single girls and a MW couple). I'll start with my least favorite and work up to my favorite (which actually happens to be in the order that they occurred... lol). The first time, I think I had just turned 18, and I was looking for my first "legal" sex. I posted ads saying that I wanted to find a girl who wanted to take a ride in my car, smoke some weed, watch the sunset, and then find a secluded place to have some fun. I didn't get many replies, but finally this one 18 year old girl replied, said she loved smoking and was available right now. I called her to make sure she wasn't some man-rapist, then drove over (about 30 min). In her picture she looked pretty cute, but once I got there she turned out to be kind of a beast (pretty overweight), but nevertheless she had some nice tits, and I had driven 30 minutes to get there, so I was like what the hell, pussy is pussy. So we got fuckin baked in my car and then I fucked her in her room while her mom was asleep. I bounced out of there right after and tried to forget it ever happened... lol The second time I was still 18, I think it was a month or two after the first time, I was posting similar ads about driving in my car, and this cutie that went to UCDavis replied. Now she wasn't the cream of the crop, but she had some big tits and a squeezable ass. So we met my highschool parking lot and drove up to a nice lookout spot where we proceeded to make out and then, seeing as this wasn't some sort of relationship where she wanted to take it slow, I just went straight for the tits, and never looked back. After the initial meeting we ended up having sex 2 or 3 other times, but then I think she went back to school and I went off to school and I never heard from her again. The third time, I was 19 and I was going to Las Vegas for CES. So a few weeks before I was heading there I started posting ads in m4w and m4mw (the m4mw ads were a bit tamer), and I finally got a reply from a cute asian couple in their mid-twenties. The guy was small and unimpressive (compared to me at least), so I wasn't worried about being threatened or anything. And the girl was actually pretty fine: nice small perky tits, an ass to die for, and as I found out one TIGHT FUCKIN PUSSY. They were very, very hesitant before we met up, but once I told them that I went to an Ivy League school and said that I'd bring my college ID to prove it, they got much more relaxed. This is where I probably made a mistake, I agreed to meet them at their hotel room, whereas I probably should have made them meet me in a public place first, but luckily everything turned out ok. When I got there she was wearing some sexy negligee and he was just wearing jeans and a T-shirt. After showing them my ID, I sat down on the bed next to the girl and started kissing her neck and running my hands all over her body. She was very stiff and hesitant at first (and I was actually almost worried that the guy was forcing her to do this), but she quickly warmed up to my touch and I got her naked. At this point the guy was just kinda watching. The whole time she was pretty much motionless, it was kinda weird... like she didn't try to take off my clothes, and she didn't make any effort to suck my dick or anything. I just kind of ignored it, and she was hot enough that I was already hard without any stimulation. It got kinda weird as I was fucking her... the guy and I had never really talked about what was going to go on between us... and I had kind of assumed that we weren't going to be touching each other... but as I'm fucking her he starts stripping then he gets on the bed next to me and starts hugging both me and the girl while stroking his dick. I kinda ignore it at first cause I'm in tight pussy heaven, but when I pull out to switch positions he goes for my dick and starts strokin it... INSTANT FLACCID. It took me by surprise and I didn't know I'd be so opposed to a guy touching my cock... but the second his hand touched mine I just went floppy. At that point I kind of awkwardly left and apologized, saying that it was my first threesome, and I never heard from them again. The fourth and the best time, I was still 19 and I started posting ads saying I was looking for a submissive girl who wanted to be spanked for being a naughty little slut... but those ads didn't get any replies that panned out, so I stepped it up and posted some ads saying that I was looking for a girls who have rape fantasies and the replies started rollin in (well a lot faster than usual... still not more than 1 a day usually... lol). So I guess a lot of girls have rape fantasies, or it might just have been that the nature of the ad attracted girls, I'm not entirely sure. But finally this 32 year old woman replied with something like "You talk big, but how do I know you can follow through", and after some back and forth (where I wrote her a fuckin hot erotic story), she agreed to meet. She was pretty fuckin hot and said that she wanted me to tie her up and abuse all her holes... and who the fuck can say no to that. So we ended up meeting up at least 6 or 7 times and I stayed the night a couple times, and we actually went up to a cabin for a couple days and just had a full on fetish-fest. It was pretty fuckin sweet. But after a while I decided that I really don't like fake tits... they were big and perky, but they just don't feel right, and the last couple times we met up she just wasn't really turning me on anymore... so I kind of broke it off and haven't heard from her since. Picture related... it's number 4. ----------------- I only had one hook up experience off of cl...Two summers ago, when I was 21, I didn't have a full time job or much to do so I spent a fair amount of time looking for a hook-up. Eventually I came across this woman in her 40's. She was blonde, about 5'4, an a-cup, and rather slim. We met up the first time for coffee just so we could get a feel for each other, I learned that she was a high school teacher and that she had a son a little younger than I was. She was very attractive but I was rather shy about wanting to do things so we just parted ways. After that about a month passed by when I sent her an e-mail asking her if she wanted to get coffee again. Again we met up and coffee, she kept texting back and forth with her son at this time, after coffee we went for a walk along the lake front after walking for awhile I asked her if she wanted to do a NSA and she said yes. We kept walking for a bit and then sat on a bench and talked for a bit. When I got the feeling that she wasn't going to make the first move I moved in close to her on the bench and kissed her on the lips. She told me she was glad I did that. It was decided then, that we were going to fuck so we ended up going back to her place. As we pull into the driveway we see her son waiting outside for her. Her and I get out of the car and her son has this slightly shocked expression on his face but he does a good job of suppressing it. We all go inside, him and his mom talk for a little bit about him needing money or something. She introduces him to me, we shake hands. It was very awkward and then he leaves. We proceed to go upstairs to her room and get down to business. I lie down on her bed and am just thinking about what I'm about to do while she's in the next room. She comes into the room in white lingerie and *bam* instant hard-on. She tells me that she really loves to suck cock which is music to my ears. She proceeds to pull down my pants and grab around in my underwear for my junk after playing with it for a little bit she whips it out and begins to suck and blow me violently for the next five minutes. I had to cut her off before I blew my load so I flip her on her back and begin to fuck her slow then fast...long and hard...short stops...change ups... 7 minutes into all this she's moaning so hard that from outside we hear one of her neighbors yell "For God's sake there are children playing outside!" We both laugh and I go over to the window and shut it. We go back to fucking for another 20 mins or so switching positions as she came buckets. Eventually I was covered in sweat and needed to call it quits so she went back to sucking down on my meat stick until I blew my creamy splooge down her throat. As she drove me back into town she read me the text her son had written her: "He's like 16 ahahahaha" I laughed at this and asked her what her thoughts would be if I told her I was 16 she became very disturbed by this and kept asking me if I was of age. I told her I was but to this day she might continue to think that I might have lied about my age. She dropped me off at the coffee shoppe where we had met and that was the last time I saw her. here's the picture she sent of herself, not much but it should give you an idea...